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Sorry again. Things got... GAH.
Epic dinner was epic RAGEFEST. His family is everything I LOATHE. They were sooooo niiiiice in their fucking racism and homophobia and we - oh yeh, opposing camps - were chillingly polite. Well, except Fleur whom I had to kick under the table a zillion times, but at least she subsided into very French muttering. Situation seemed lost for all concerned. *SIGH*
But Hunk saved the day... Alright, after we all went to my flat and were SEEETHING, he spoke up - GASP! He's a very silent person. Right, not with bro, obviously, but with the general populace - and told us what happened when he took bro to meet his family. Turns out his family knew he was gay, but were racist as fuck. So he steadfastly refused to talk to them until they see the light and went on to live with bro and married him eventually. Which gave me some hope, because, no matter how cold-foot-y I feel about marriage, I love me archaeologist dearly.
So King (right, his name is Arturo, so Arthur so I call him King. Stupid in-joke, actually, no deferential attitude involved) called and turns out he was as embarrassed, het up and upset about things as I was. So we went looking for a place to actually live that wasn't where his family lives and would allow both of us to get to work without waking up at 5 am. I think we've found it and tomorrow we're going to 'talk to the man' as it were.
Sorry for disappearing, apparently not replying and all that stuff, was incredibly upset and then was quite busy.
ingriam YAY a new fic! Promise you that, as soon as we get the house thing sorted I'll read it and INUNDATE you with reviews.
drelfina I feel so very bad for disappearing again. I WILL be more online once thing have settled and I really have no words that would express my gratitude to you for liking my silly fics and looking for me.
Please, all, forgive me. I do love you all.
HUGZ
Epic dinner was epic RAGEFEST. His family is everything I LOATHE. They were sooooo niiiiice in their fucking racism and homophobia and we - oh yeh, opposing camps - were chillingly polite. Well, except Fleur whom I had to kick under the table a zillion times, but at least she subsided into very French muttering. Situation seemed lost for all concerned. *SIGH*
But Hunk saved the day... Alright, after we all went to my flat and were SEEETHING, he spoke up - GASP! He's a very silent person. Right, not with bro, obviously, but with the general populace - and told us what happened when he took bro to meet his family. Turns out his family knew he was gay, but were racist as fuck. So he steadfastly refused to talk to them until they see the light and went on to live with bro and married him eventually. Which gave me some hope, because, no matter how cold-foot-y I feel about marriage, I love me archaeologist dearly.
So King (right, his name is Arturo, so Arthur so I call him King. Stupid in-joke, actually, no deferential attitude involved) called and turns out he was as embarrassed, het up and upset about things as I was. So we went looking for a place to actually live that wasn't where his family lives and would allow both of us to get to work without waking up at 5 am. I think we've found it and tomorrow we're going to 'talk to the man' as it were.
Sorry for disappearing, apparently not replying and all that stuff, was incredibly upset and then was quite busy.
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Please, all, forgive me. I do love you all.
HUGZ
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Date: 2010-02-02 04:19 pm (UTC)And yeah... Tony didn't speak to his mother for over a year until she came around. In the end, nothing really matters except you, your love, and those people who support you!
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Date: 2010-03-04 09:58 pm (UTC)It's beastly, though, even if I must admit I never had much luck with my boys's mothers. Must be a curse or something. Doesn't help that my 'type' seems to be thin elegant black-haired pale young men. *SIGH* I seem to have taken the 'opposite attract' thing a little too much to heart in the looks department. BUT! New home and partnership seems to work. *crosses things*
HUGZ and thanks.
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Date: 2010-02-06 07:16 pm (UTC)Sorry your SO's parental units are such unrepentant, stupid assholes. I hope you and your dear love get things sorted out soon. It's no good not to have a real home to live in; I've done enough moving to know that pretty well. I hope to hear more from you, soon.
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Date: 2010-03-04 10:05 pm (UTC)Sorry for delaying your well-deserved review, am going away for a week to translate for Fleur at a con (museum or librarian or whatthefuckitis, have no idea) so am kinda sorta shafting you again *cringe* BUT ONLY FOR A WEEK OR SO, I PROMISE!
And to answer both your comments in a fell swoop, glad you like layout. King gifted me with paid account - I feel sooooo very POSH - and there was this lovely bat motif... :-D Black. purple (or is it plum?) bats... what's not to like?
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Date: 2010-03-05 03:10 am (UTC)*laughs* Kidding; just kidding. I can wait.
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Date: 2010-05-11 08:56 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2010-02-13 09:05 am (UTC)Still like your fics. XD
Best of luck with you and Archeologist-dude, and place-hunting!
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Date: 2010-03-04 10:09 pm (UTC)Found place, moved, settled in. Archaeologist dude - henceforth aka-ed as King, 'cuz his name is Arturo = Arthur = King of the Britons :P - appears to be living-with material which is odd, but there you go.
Thanks for liking my fics and friending me, will friend you at once. Am going away for a week... Heh, am very disappearing person, I confess, but I'll use said time to write more fics. I need to get back into Grand Remy, though, I kinda miss that story.
HUGZ
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Date: 2010-03-04 11:35 pm (UTC)So good that King (... no matter what, it still sounds like the name of a German Shepherd) and you found a place.
One day, will hope for upload of more France. Poor Rem's about to pass out and die from choking on his vomit and he's been languishing for ages. :P
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Date: 2010-04-16 03:17 am (UTC)<.<
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Date: 2010-03-04 05:28 pm (UTC)